Try this today. I can say - Answer might surprise you.
Are you sure about what you want in your life?
Ok. Let me get this straight.
Everybody wants to get what feels them good. I too want to live a complete unrestricted life. You also crave for an easy and happy life. It's obvious need of everyone to look perfect, admired, make lots of money, lead a luxury life and wants everyone's attention wherever they walk.
It's easy to LIKE such life.
What if I ask you -
What exactly you want from your life?
You may perhaps, answer all your wildest dreams, I want to be happy, jolly always.
I'm asking you yet another more interesting question, a question that perhaps you had rarely, if not never considered before - "WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO STRUGGLE FOR?"
This seems to be a greater value and integrity checker for you.
Everybody wants to have good grades - but not everyone ready to sacrifice some of their comforts. People want to have an fantastic job and money - but they fear and stay away from extra hour work weeks, having their goals peek into their weekends. Even I, if anyhow in this great universe, wanted to be rich without risk. A crappy desire before, anyway.
Counter-intuitively happiness needs a struggle
Can you avoid nasty experiences?
Can you skip negative circumstances?
Can you just delete them. Chances are, you may keep them in hold. But now or then, they will come roaring back.
We people, all are more or less similar.
It's quite easy to handle the positive experiences. It's the tough times that we all, by definition, struggle with.
See - what we are getting out of life is not much determined by the feelings we desire, but the bad circumstances we are willing to confront and conquer in due time.
I want an amazing physique - seriously. The thing is, when I make up my mind for getting it, I'm not actually seeing the legitimate pain and stress that comes with living inside a gym for hour upon hour. So, when you go there, thinking only of getting great shape in so and so months, as sold by social media influencers, you won't feel that you get there where you wanted. Hence, we won't end up being one what we wished.
It's all the part of the GAME. You won't win if you don't play.
What is that supreme question?
"What do you want to enjoy?" isn't really serving the purpose.
"What struggle you want to sustain?" comes near to the reality.
There is always a price we pay for getting something. If you want benefits of something, you need to consider the costs. Nothing is absolutely free my friend.
Want great physique? - consider all those sweat, soreness, diet at that very moment.
Want to be rich? - consider all market risks and work hour demands.
It's always attached. Tagged price.
Oh man, How do I choose to suffer?
YOU ALWAYS GET WHAT YOU WANT IF YOU SUFFER FOR IT.
Oh, Sorry - it's not an YES always. You have to deal with NO too.
What the heck?
Yeah, we got a beautiful thing called imagination.
We tend to imagine our wild desires and exorbitant wanting.
You know what people call them in real world - FANTASY
Something doesn't ringing bells here.
But, you have to choose something. There is nothing as life full of red roses OR happily lived ever after section. Easy questions has got pleasuring answers. But it's always the hard question we have to work after.
Who are you is defined by what you struggled for. There is a RESPECT in there. People praise them because they worked hard for it. That makes them great.
It's the simple and basic thing of you. Your struggle makes your dream worth.
Go for it.
Peace. ^-^
- The End of Project Inside -
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